Friday, December 14, 2012

By Dr.,Adewunmi Oke of Way Out Clinic

I have just taken up to 5 morsels out of the heap of White Amala and Ewedu which was prepared by my Lovely Elder Sister last night, lo and behold, I got an Alert on my Phone, indicating that I've got a message waiting in WARD "F" (My Facebook Inbox). However, I know it's quite a bad habit for one to talk or operate phone while eating, but I had to jump protoco...
ls simply because I know the message is "WAY OUT CLINIC-ORIENTED".

RISK! RISK!! RISK!!!
I appreciate when Orators tell us in their Speeches that Life is all about RISK TAKING. In fact, I so much know that NO ONE could live good on this planet-earth without taking risks, but...;

HOW REASONABLE IS THE RISK ON POINT?
BECAUSE OF WHOM IS THE RISK TAKEN?
WHAT ARE THE CHANCES LIKE FOR THE RISK NOT TO BACK-FIRE?

Meanwhile,
IF YOU ARE ONE OF THOSE WHO STILL BELIEVE MARRIAGE IS "AN AMUSEMENT PARK" WHERE EVEN IN THE FACE OF RISKS, YOU BELIEVE ALL YOU WOULD EXPERIENCE IS NOTHING BUT ONLY GOODNESS, Hmmmmmnnnnn!!!

I THINK YOU NEED TO LEARN...

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He writes...
"Please my wish is for you to post this on THE WAY OUT CLINIC forum for response from members. My name should not be mention please. I am really in pains and need solution. THANKS

I don’t even know where to start. But the issue is I married a woman that I have invested my resources and time to assist her in whatever capacity within my reach and limit. But after we got married this woman has never said anything good about me to her family but instead tell negative things about me that made her family look at me as a wicked person. I talk to her in different ways but still there is no change.

She as well tells people who cares to hear negative things about me including those that are not her age mate.

She is HIV positive put agreed to marry with the consideration that if we were together and this thing happened will I leave her? But all this sacrifice has never been appreciated by her nor her family. And this I have never told anyone about her health status. As God will have it, we have two kids both HIV negative and I the father also negative.

And I have never had sex with her using condom, but still God has shown His great wonders by me not contacting HIV.

But as I am writing now, I am at the point of breaking the marriage because there is no respect given to me, my parents and my sibling by the same woman I made these huge sacrifices to.

I can’t explain everything that transpired for the past 9 years of marriage. She has never for a day in these 9 years bring any idea that can develop the house and any idea I bring she don’t respond but instead will take the issue to her family for consultation and that is how her input will never be made.

I have taken the issue to the father but the father said that it not yet time for him to say anything yet. This I conclude he is in support of what she is doing. The mother as well.ww