HOW CAN I ASK A LADY OUT?

 

 

While peeping tru my inbox now was an interesting post..I so much love the courage of the person to ve asked
such a cogent and salient question which many big boys out there shy of..
This is indeed very loving.Thus,motivated my curiosity to answering the question
UNCLE T,HOW CAN I ASK A GIRL OUT???
This isn't simple as many thought.I tell u,many would say I love u and wished a lady were his girl..jst like that?
What a childish means of asking a lady out..
I rmbered I once write in piece of paper for ladies...what an ages past....why not follow this simple process..

Gauge her interest. Is she making eye contact with you? Is she smiling, laughing and having a good time talking to you? If so, you're on the right track. What if she keeps looking at you because she's annoyed with you always looking at her? This is not a good sign, and the girl might be a little stressed herself. Make sure to keep your feelings about her private, and not so obvious.

2
Notice how often she touches you. If she's constantly trying to touch your hand or finds excuses to do so, then she's probably interested. However, don't assume that she doesn't like you if she isn't touching you. Likewise, don't start touching her if she isn't making contact with you. This usually scares or intimidates girls. If she won't even look at you, stay calm and find excuses to talk to her.
3
Observe how she looks at you. If she likes you, she will either hold your gaze for a long time or pull away immediately. Either of these signs could mean that she likes you. If you happen to glance at the girl and you see her staring back at you, then this means that she doesn't like you, or she does like you, although she may quickly dart her head in a different direction. If she's looking at you in a mean way, check your teeth. If she pulls away quickly, it could mean she is nervous but still likes you.

Remember that if you are having a conversation, girls tend to look at your face, so don't immediately assume that she likes you if you are speaking and she is simply listening. If you never talk to the girl, chances are you have a low chance of dating her. Friendships lead to loveship, but non-friendship leads to.... nothing.
Interact With Her

1
Look directly at her. While talking, make sure to look at her face and specifically her eyes. Pay attention to what she is saying so that when she asks you something or stops talking, you can continue the conversation intelligently. Don't get caught staring at her body. Very few women like this. If she doesn't look at you or she ignores you, back off, and leave her alone for a little. Some girls don't like looking boys in the eyes and talking. Read her body language.
2
Help her out. Offer to carry something heavy, get her lunch at the office or do something nice for her. If she refuses, then wait until she really needs help or comforting, like when she's feeling down and having a bad day. Be friendly and outgoing to her. If she walks away quickly, don't follow her or say, "What??" just keep on going.
Pop the Question

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Make sure you look and smell nice. You don't need to get decked out in a suit and tie to ask a girl out, but make sure your clothes are clean and well-fit, that you've brushed your teeth and are wearing deodorant. You should never EVER wear the same clothes again, like you wear red sweatpants Monday, and then you wear them again on Tuesday.

2
Approach the girl you like. Don't worry about coming up with something overly clever. Simply say "Hi" or "Hey." As the conversation moves forward you can give her a complement or ask her a question.

If starting conversations is not your strong point,
3
Keep the tone casual and fun. Don't make the occasion seem like a big deal. Flirt a little! Relax, crack a joke, and break the touch barrier.

4
When the time is right, ask her for a date. Ask her to go the movies or something else you both would be interested in. You could also invite her out to happy hour at a bar you both enjoy. Try to make it original.

You might say: "I heard about this movie, _______. What do you think about it?" If she says she thinks it looks good, ask her if she'd like to go with you to see it. If she asks "As in a date?" say yes. Girls like guys who are sure of themselves much better than they do the cowardly guys.
5
Be confident. If she questions if you're asking her on a date, say yes. Girls like guys who are sure of themselves.

6
Be prepared for rejection. Keep your cool if she says no, smile and respond gracefully by saying, "No problem! Maybe another time." Change the conversation to something else or leave if you'd rather not hang around. Act as if you don't need her, because that sometimes will pique the interest of a girl. If she makes a face and yells, "Oh my gosh, no way!" this means that the girl is grossed out with you. Leave her alone and move wth ur life. Don't get your feelings too hurt though, this will leave you lifeless. Some girls just don't like this kind of stuff.

Good afternoon house,
Ariwoola temitayo of ISSUES IN DATINGHH

 

 

While peeping tru my inbox now was an interesting post..I so much love the courage of the person to ve asked
such a cogent and salient question which many big boys out there shy of..
This is indeed very loving.Thus,motivated my curiosity to answering the question
UNCLE T,HOW CAN I ASK A GIRL OUT???
This isn't simple as many thought.I tell u,many would say I love u and wished a lady were his girl..jst like that?
What a childish means of asking a lady out..
I rmbered I once write in piece of paper for ladies...what an ages past....why not follow this simple process..

Gauge her interest. Is she making eye contact with you? Is she smiling, laughing and having a good time talking to you? If so, you're on the right track. What if she keeps looking at you because she's annoyed with you always looking at her? This is not a good sign, and the girl might be a little stressed herself. Make sure to keep your feelings about her private, and not so obvious.

2
Notice how often she touches you. If she's constantly trying to touch your hand or finds excuses to do so, then she's probably interested. However, don't assume that she doesn't like you if she isn't touching you. Likewise, don't start touching her if she isn't making contact with you. This usually scares or intimidates girls. If she won't even look at you, stay calm and find excuses to talk to her.
3
Observe how she looks at you. If she likes you, she will either hold your gaze for a long time or pull away immediately. Either of these signs could mean that she likes you. If you happen to glance at the girl and you see her staring back at you, then this means that she doesn't like you, or she does like you, although she may quickly dart her head in a different direction. If she's looking at you in a mean way, check your teeth. If she pulls away quickly, it could mean she is nervous but still likes you.

Remember that if you are having a conversation, girls tend to look at your face, so don't immediately assume that she likes you if you are speaking and she is simply listening. If you never talk to the girl, chances are you have a low chance of dating her. Friendships lead to loveship, but non-friendship leads to.... nothing.
Interact With Her

1
Look directly at her. While talking, make sure to look at her face and specifically her eyes. Pay attention to what she is saying so that when she asks you something or stops talking, you can continue the conversation intelligently. Don't get caught staring at her body. Very few women like this. If she doesn't look at you or she ignores you, back off, and leave her alone for a little. Some girls don't like looking boys in the eyes and talking. Read her body language.
2
Help her out. Offer to carry something heavy, get her lunch at the office or do something nice for her. If she refuses, then wait until she really needs help or comforting, like when she's feeling down and having a bad day. Be friendly and outgoing to her. If she walks away quickly, don't follow her or say, "What??" just keep on going.
Pop the Question

1
Make sure you look and smell nice. You don't need to get decked out in a suit and tie to ask a girl out, but make sure your clothes are clean and well-fit, that you've brushed your teeth and are wearing deodorant. You should never EVER wear the same clothes again, like you wear red sweatpants Monday, and then you wear them again on Tuesday.

2
Approach the girl you like. Don't worry about coming up with something overly clever. Simply say "Hi" or "Hey." As the conversation moves forward you can give her a complement or ask her a question.

If starting conversations is not your strong point,
3
Keep the tone casual and fun. Don't make the occasion seem like a big deal. Flirt a little! Relax, crack a joke, and break the touch barrier.

4
When the time is right, ask her for a date. Ask her to go the movies or something else you both would be interested in. You could also invite her out to happy hour at a bar you both enjoy. Try to make it original.

You might say: "I heard about this movie, _______. What do you think about it?" If she says she thinks it looks good, ask her if she'd like to go with you to see it. If she asks "As in a date?" say yes. Girls like guys who are sure of themselves much better than they do the cowardly guys.
5
Be confident. If she questions if you're asking her on a date, say yes. Girls like guys who are sure of themselves.

6
Be prepared for rejection. Keep your cool if she says no, smile and respond gracefully by saying, "No problem! Maybe another time." Change the conversation to something else or leave if you'd rather not hang around. Act as if you don't need her, because that sometimes will pique the interest of a girl. If she makes a face and yells, "Oh my gosh, no way!" this means that the girl is grossed out with you. Leave her alone and move wth ur life. Don't get your feelings too hurt though, this will leave you lifeless. Some girls just don't like this kind of stuff.

Good afternoon house,
Ariwoola temitayo of ISSUES IN DATING

Many would say Doctor Issues has come again,though my post isn't more regular as before all in the name of sourcing for the real fact,nosing around and thus doing great, valuable interview.
This early piece is tagged DECISION MAKING..
One of the common mistakes people make in courtship is to assume that a courtship is sucessful only wen it ends in marriage.It is erroneous to think that the necess...

ary end to courtship is marriage.As such as we desire to graduate into marriage from courtship,a courtship that does not end in marriage is not a failed courtship.
No matter how perfectly matched a couple may appear,courtship is meant to address the question of affinity and the suitability of one for the other.It is a time to seek an answer to the question whether u are meant to be husband and wife.
If along the way u discover that u are really not meant to be together,and decide to go to ur seperate ways,rather than viewing the situation as failed courtship,I would have u see it as God that has answered your prayers.The courtship was a huge sucess.You are not meant to be husband and wife.God in his own way has saved you frm the costly mistake that living together would have been.That it may not be. The situation you prefer,does not change the fact that the courtship was sucessful,for it achieved its purpose
If you ve studied my writting well and thoughtfully,u shd have an idea of wat I say of how much work u need to do if u want to ve a happy married life.Am nt married!!!!get that.
Marriage is not a neceSsary end to courtship.in a good marriage.Marriage is not a destination.It is a journey of knowing each other better day by day..
If you focus on marriage rather than understanding and getting to ur patner with an open mind,the chances are that u are going to overlook or ignore tiny gaps in ur relationship that have the potential of becoming big gulfs in marriage.
Take a moment to reflect on the issues raised in my previous writings.These are very serious issues that could dtermine the way the rest of ur life turns out.Resolving these issues could be a prelude to the beginning of the rest of your life.Do not take them lightly by any means,your life could depend on it.......
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As at this morning,text,ping,flash came in asking the concluding part of a question I raised on this great page 2days ago on CAN THIS BE LOVE?
It took me an extra time to find a lasting answer to the question myself..
Out of a research work I did on it,Many said it was A STUPID LOVE Bola acted..
Many said in my interview,the last tin nvr to be done is to will their parents properties to their love...

d ones..
Things went apart as BOLA fell in love and willed her share of property to her husband...
It was an early inbox on my facebook ward 2days ago,I imagined if this can actually be true until I did a thorough research as an investigative journalist..as u are all aware post by Dr Issues himself would always go indepthly into knowing the right fact.

Bola in her HND1 met her love(Tunde)they tend to love each other cos I wouldn't want to eject my personal opinion...
2yrs after der meeting,bola had brought him for introduction to her parents...am frm a very rich family""Bola exclaimed""
The first day my dad saw him,he was displeased with him,he adviced strongly I leave him if our future is to be secured..
It got to a stage,daddy threatened to disown me if I dnt drop him..
Not quite long,my dad fell sick that took his breathe away from us(died).
This gave me more chance to further my relationship wth my guy..2yrs after,we wedded wth support frm my mum and other family members...
At my 8th mnth of pregnancy,I received the 1st ever thorough beating frm my husband,slap becomes my usual gift,embarrasment turned to my breakfast..
My husband changed to his original colour...
My baby was 3mnths wen my husband threw me out of the house we both built,he collected all the entrance keys to d house,collected my car keys too..
Life was horrible for me.I managed to rent a single room apartment where I live with my baby..
The most stupid act I did was that I INVESTED MY INHERITED WILL INTO HIS BUSINESS...
Am down,and need a rapid respond squard to give me vital comments...
Dr Issues,pls help me out...