Sunday, November 18, 2012

Many would say Doctor Issues has come again,though my post isn't more regular as before all in the name of sourcing for the real fact,nosing around and thus doing great, valuable interview.
This early piece is tagged DECISION MAKING..
One of the common mistakes people make in courtship is to assume that a courtship is sucessful only wen it ends in marriage.It is erroneous to think that the necess...
ary end to courtship is marriage.As such as we desire to graduate into marriage from courtship,a courtship that does not end in marriage is not a failed courtship.
No matter how perfectly matched a couple may appear,courtship is meant to address the question of affinity and the suitability of one for the other.It is a time to seek an answer to the question whether u are meant to be husband and wife.
If along the way u discover that u are really not meant to be together,and decide to go to ur seperate ways,rather than viewing the situation as failed courtship,I would have u see it as God that has answered your prayers.The courtship was a huge sucess.You are not meant to be husband and wife.God in his own way has saved you frm the costly mistake that living together would have been.That it may not be. The situation you prefer,does not change the fact that the courtship was sucessful,for it achieved its purpose
If you ve studied my writting well and thoughtfully,u shd have an idea of wat I say of how much work u need to do if u want to ve a happy married life.Am nt married!!!!get that.
Marriage is not a neceSsary end to courtship.in a good marriage.Marriage is not a destination.It is a journey of knowing each other better day by day..
If you focus on marriage rather than understanding and getting to ur patner with an open mind,the chances are that u are going to overlook or ignore tiny gaps in ur relationship that have the potential of becoming big gulfs in marriage.
Take a moment to reflect on the issues raised in my previous writings.These are very serious issues that could dtermine the way the rest of ur life turns out.Resolving these issues could be a prelude to the beginning of the rest of your life.Do not take them lightly by any means,your life could depend on it.......
WATCH OUT FOR THE REST..
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Many would say Doctor Issues has come again,though my post isn't more regular as before all in the name of sourcing for the real fact,nosing around and thus doing great, valuable interview.
This early piece is tagged  DECISION MAKING..
One of the common mistakes people make in courtship is to assume that a courtship is sucessful only wen it ends in marriage.It is erroneous to think that the necessary end to courtship is marriage.As such as we desire to graduate into marriage from courtship,a courtship that does not end in marriage is not a failed courtship.
No matter how perfectly matched a couple may appear,courtship is meant to address the question of affinity and the suitability of one for the other.It is a time to seek an answer to the question whether u are meant to be husband and wife.
If along the way u discover that u are really not meant to be together,and decide to go to ur seperate ways,rather than viewing the situation as failed courtship,I would have u see it as God that has answered your prayers.The courtship was a huge sucess.You are not meant to be husband and wife.God in his own way has saved you frm the costly mistake that living together would have been.That it may not be. The situation you prefer,does not change the fact that the courtship was sucessful,for it achieved its purpose
If you ve studied my writting well and thoughtfully,u shd have an idea of wat I say of how much work u need to do if u want to ve a happy married life.Am nt married!!!!get that.
Marriage is not a neceSsary end to courtship.in a good marriage.Marriage is not a destination.It is a journey of knowing each other better day by day..
If you focus on marriage rather than understanding and getting to ur patner with an open mind,the chances are that u are going to overlook or ignore tiny gaps in ur relationship that have the potential of becoming big gulfs in marriage.
Take a moment to reflect on the issues raised in my previous writings.These are very serious issues that could dtermine the way the rest of ur life turns out.Resolving these issues could be a prelude to the beginning of the rest of your life.Do not take them lightly by any means,your life could depend on it.......
WATCH OUT FOR THE REST..

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