Dangers of Pre-marital Sex -

Marriage [is] honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. Hebrew 13:4;

This is the age that evil is gaining more prominence; people, society, culture and civilization are making frantic attempt to rationalize and create excuses for premarital sex, but, it does not matter what people seem to have generally accepted, the position of the Almighty God can never change. God’s stand with respect to sex is very clear and unambiguous; sex is exclusively reserved for married couples, a man and a woman who are legitimately married. There is nothing sinful about sex if it takes place between couples within the confinements of marriage, but according to the scriptures, God’s wrath looms over everyone who engages in sex outside of marriage unless he or she repents immediately and quit.

Premarital sex comes with a number of consequences ranging from physical to emotional and spiritual. The first danger of sex before marriage is that, those who engage in it are breaking God’s law and order for marriage. God’s order for marriage as clearly stated in Genesis 2: 24 involves leaving, cleaving and becoming one flesh. Those who contravened this order according to the accounts of the bible were either burnt alive or stoned to death! In God’s order for marriage, becoming one flesh [sexual intercourse] is to take place only after the marriage union has been properly consummated following a clear cut leaving [separation consequent upon parental consent] and cleaving [as attested to by public declaration of intention of the couples to live together as husband and wife]. Engaging in sex before marriage is tantamount to building on a wrong spiritual foundation and this may have serious negative effects on the marriage. For those who have fallen victim of premarital sex, immediate genuine repentance is required to break the consequence of violating God’s law and repair the faulty foundation.

Another danger of sex before marriage is that it opens an avenue for distrust and suspicion in the marriage union. Apart from the loss of dignity, honour and self respect the couples would have enjoyed with themselves if they had kept their bodies pure, the chance of suspicion in their marriage will be very high. It may be difficult for those who slept with each other during courtship to trust each other when eventually married. Either of them may be faced with questions such as ‘How am I sure that he/she will be faithful to me if he/she could not discipline himself/herself during courtship?’ What is the assurance that he/she is not sleeping with others if he/she agreed to sleep with me?’ These and several other suspicious thoughts can be precipitated by sex before marriage, and could result in serious emotional stress, disturbance or damage, especially during times of pressures and misunderstandings.

In some cultures, the excuse of some ladies for engaging in premarital sex may stem from family or parental pressure to get pregnant before getting married for fear of not having a child after marriage. This is unfounded and ridiculous. There should never be any form of experiment before marriage. The truth is that only God knows what lies ahead of each and every one of us. It is foolish for any lady to think she can keep a man or secure her marriage by getting pregnant before marriage. The fact is, if a there is true love, there will never be any need for pregnancy before marriage as a bait to keep the man. If a man asks you to go to bed with him before getting married, it is doubtful whether he really loves you. What he wants is a child and not you!

Your testimony as a child of God is not what you can toy with. You cannot afford to trade off your future and destiny on the altar of premarital sex. The price could be greater than you can afford to pay! Temptations to go into sex may be intense but you are to resist and keep yourself pure until you are legitimately married. There is nothing to be in a hurry for; the man or the woman will soon be yours but until then, you are not permitted to uncover each other’s skirt and pants. The dignity of marriage is when both of you keep yourselves for each other. The scripture says that God will judge all fornicators and whoremongers it does not matter what the world has accepted as norm.

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called you beautiful, take them off because
he married you.

Don't open your legs because he said you
... will make a good mother. Open them
because he's ready to be a father after
your wedding.

Don't take him home because he gave you
a ride or buy you ice cream and fried rice,
take him home because he treated you
like a queen and is committed to be the
love of your life.

Don't push him away because he has no
money today. Hold him close if he is a man
of vision, to another woman, he's Honey
and he got brighter days ahead, with a
prospective blossoming future.

Don't go punishing him because another
man hurt you! All men are not the same!

A man who fears God doesn't hurt! If he
loves you, give him a chance and he may
be the best thing that ever happened to
you.

Don't stay up all night wondering where to
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Have you seen the new MTN Port
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Saka use to advertise for Etisalat? I Will
be sharing with you what likely went
down behind the scene to cause what
... you will call in developed nations "Brand Scandal" and I will relate it to
our day to day situations of costly
mistakes we make. Today's edition
focus on Relationships. His decision to port to MTN after a better
20million Naira deal gives us a vivid
example between most single men and
single ladies who will date each other
for years but the guy will refuse to seal
the relationship with a marriage contract. My advice to such ladies is
simple: Port to the man willing to marry
you.
Etisalat used Saka for years and refused
to have a legal contract with him. Today
they are paying heavily for it. My sincere advice to our single ladies is
don't be foolish. Look for a man that
value your worth enough to keep you
for life. Not that guy that keep
promising you marriage, claiming
things are still tight for him. Marriage has nothing to do with being wealthy.
Pastor Nike Adeyemi once shared how
they got married in a one room
apartment and it made sense.
Remember anyone who is not willing to
sign that marriage contract doesn't value your worth. If he refuse to marry
you. You want my advice;" make you
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HOW COULD MY VIRGIN GIRLFRIEND DO THIS TO ME..

Last night was my birthday eve, sleep eluded me. I was so engrossed with the priceless birthday gift my virgin girlfriend plans to offer me. She promised to let me pounce on her virgin thighs as a birthday gift to me. Men! What better gift can a man ask for...she was a pure and sure virgin, unfingered, unkissed, untouched...swe et right?

if you wo...uld permit me to use that wrong vocabulary.

Before then, she has been seducing me for the past ten months with erotic notes, talks and texts...like... "hey baby my young thighs are waiting for you to separate them...hmmm i'm so horny for you baby....i want you inside of me...when I make a move she'll say...HEY! WAIT FOR YOUR BIRTHDAY BEFORE YOU CAN HAVE IT!"
and all that but isn't all that torment meant to make me go round the bend? Anyway I waited patiently for my birthday to come and here it's, it's has arrived safely. My DRAGON:) and me:)

On that fateful day, I woke up like the way everyone wakes up on their birthday. I sauntered to the sitting room with eyes aching for more sleep. My family behaviours that morning was so odd and strange. "But today is my birthday. Where are my gifts, wishes and kisses from my loving family?" I checked the calendar to be certain it's my birthday. It's my birthday certainly. All I got from my loving family was "Hello son, hi big brother, morning cousin..." men! I think my family need a medical surgery:)...i mused...

Anyway, my virgin girlfriend has it all planned out for me. Who cares about what my family does:) I have a cunt to hunt:)

Later in the day my virgin girlfriend ringed me..."hi baby your birthday gift is waiting for you. I'm home alone in my room. Come quickly please, before I change my mind"... Oh boy eh my guys I use dana airlines land for her room oh.

The zero hour has finally graced me. A moment I need to zero in on my virgin girlfriend. I got to her room it was so dark. "I'm here in the room" she said with an erotic voice. "Give me a jiffy before you flick the light on.....okay i'm done. Switch the lights on so I can see those young virgin thighs...I need to make love to you like crazy until your goddam! Crippled Father hears your scream. On the light baby!" I vibrated.

The lights was switched on, and WO it was her father on the switch. The room was filled with my family, her family, our church members, school mates, neighbour and much more.

And I was standing in front of all of them NAKED carrying a CARTON OF CONDOM on my head. I had one in my mouth and few were on the floor. Lol

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CAN U STILL DATE YOUR EX?

Its getting more interesting@ this end..Let's get this tips,I think it will be of great help to our relationship lives.....

The hardest thing about being in a relationship is probably trying to decide if you should end it. The second hardest? Whether you should give it another chance -- especially if you've already broken up. There comes a time in most everyone's relationship when you think about throwing in the towel. And what if you do, but then your significant other wants you back? What if he promises to change? What if he swears up and down, back and forth, that that thing that tore you apart will never, ever happen again? Do you believe him? Do you risk getting your heart broken all over again?

If you're thinking about breathing new life into a dead relationship, here are seven things you should consider first.

What happened to break you up?

People break up for all kinds of reasons -- everything from an affair to physical or emotional abuse to just not feeling like you have anything in common anymore. There are no right and wrong reasons to breaking up. Everyone has to weigh what works and doesn't work for them individually. What you might not be able to stomach anymore, someone else might not see as a big deal. Think hard about what it is that broke you up and whether or not it's something you can either forgive or live with -- because there's no 100 percent guarantee that it won't keep happening.

Why do you want to reunite?

Is it mostly because he's putting so much pressure on you? Or maybe your kids are, or your family is? This needs to be your decision, not anyone else's. Do you truly still love him and see a future together -- or are you just worried about a single income, about being lonely, or about dating again? Consider whether you'd get back together if everything else in your life was going fabulously. If not, then you probably don't really want him, but just a relationship. Even if it's not a good one.

Look at the relationship as a whole. Sometimes when a relationship is bad, we end up breaking up over some silly thing -- but that was really just the straw that broke the camel's back. If you're feeling remorseful because you ended it over a forgotten anniversary or an ex he contacted on Facebook, ask yourself if this is TRULY why you broke up. Chances are, it was much deeper than that. Are you both admitting and confronting what really went wrong as opposed to the "official" reasons for the split?

Is the problem a chronic one? Is

what what broke you up something that keeps happening? How many chances have you already given your ex? Part of the conundrum of breaking up is that the ex can suddenly start to make all kinds of promises that whatever problems you have will never EVER happen again. But if they've already happened over and over, the reality is that no matter how much your spouse WANTS to change, he may simply not be able to. Psychological forces often dating back to childhood have shaped this person's habits. Those won't easily be undone just because he wants them undone.

Can you truly forgive? If you

decide to get back together, you can't be throwing your ex's transgressions in his face every time you want to win an argument. Not that the problem can never be spoken of again, but it can't be your go-to "gotcha."