Ariwoola Temitayo

Before you get married please read...and share!!
1. Once you are hooked to the
wrong
person the battle is over, you will
either be managing or patching till you
die. If a goat marries a fish, how
would they live or where would
they
be meeting each other? It is only
when the goat is thirsty and goes to
the river to drink water that they
will
only see briefly as the
fish will jump out to greet the goat
and swim away. Any marriage where
both partners see each other once
in
a long while is likened to the goat
and
fish illustration above. Marriage does
not make marriage. It is the people
in marriage that make marriage.
2 .Compatibility is worked out, of
course you may never get a perfect person.
But with dedication, knowledge
and
wisdom compatibility will start
building, that is if he or she is the
right person.
3. But the major challenge in
getting
married is choosing the right
person.
You don't choose a person
because he or she is available or eligible. You
choose a person because that
person
is the right for you.
4. Run away from any man or
woman that is easily angered by nature;
that
is getting angry easily is he or
she's
lifestyle. It is difficult to change that
person. But if someone gets angry by
mistake, that person can be
corrected but if it is his or her
nature, you have to think twice.
5. It is possible to mis-marry. It is
possible to be living with the wrong
man or woman. It is possible to be
dating the wrong person or be in
courtship with the wrong person.
6. Once your choice is right then
you are on the right track. How can a
lion
be married to a goat? what now
happens when the lion is hungry?
Any
man that beats his wife is likened to
the above illustration. Any woman
that
oppresses her husband is also
likened
to this scenario.
7. There are some people
that are
highly inflamable, please do not
take a
box of matches near them. What
this
means is that these people's hearts are made
of stone, giving them
your
soft heart in love is a mistake. They
will not value it.
8. Love may be blind to many, but
marriage will definitely open their eyes. Love
in reality is not blind
when
you start seeing those
unchangeable
signs during courtship please keep
off. When a man starts cheating on you when
dating, it is a sign that
he
will do much more when he is
married
to you. He or she may legally begin
to cheat on you because he is now
married legally to you.
9. Dating is not for outing alone,
dating is for knowing, watching
and
examining. Watch out for negative signs to
see if it can be dealt with,
if
it cannot be dealt with in courtship
it
may not change in marriage.
10. To get the right person, try to be
the right person. Work on yourself,
work on your flaws.
11 America and the western world
is plagued with divorce today because
they marry without paying
attention to
these facts listed above. They
marry
without knowing the person they are
marrying at least to a large extent.
12. Don't practice divorce before
you
get married. That is when you are
breaking relationships over and over
again, your emotion is also
affected in
the process. Wait for the right
person.
13. Don't marry because you cannot
enjoy your singlehood. If you are
happy being single, then you will
be
happy being married and if you
are not happy while still single......
14. Marriage is not an escape from
singlehood but marriage is actually
a graduation from
single hood...moving from writing simple
exams of life
to
writing another hard exams.
15. Do not rush into marriage
because
you are under pressure or you are feeling
you are the odd one out.
When
you are feeling everyone is getting
married except you then you are
making yourself becoming a
wrong person.....