Relationship Problem: Struggles Over Home Chores
Most partners work outside the home and often at more than one job. So
it's important to fairly divide the labor at home, says Dr issues, How
to Use the Law of Attraction in Matters of the Heart.
Problem-solving strategies:
Be organized and clear about your respective jobs in the
home,late,Bimbo Odukoya says. "Write all the jobs down and agree on who
does what." Be fair: Make sure each partner's tasks are equitable so no
resentment builds.
Be open to other solutions,If you both hate
housework, maybe you can spring for a cleaning service. If one of you
likes housework, the other partner can do the laundry and the yard. You
can be creative and take preferences into account -- as long as it feels
fair to both of you.
Relationship Problem: Not Making Your Relationship a Priority
If you want to keep your love life going, making your relationship a
focal point should not end when you say "I do." Karen Sherman, author of
Marriage Magic! Find It, Keep It, and Make It Last says, "Relationships
lose their luster. So make yours a priority."
Problem-solving strategies:
Do the things you used to do when you were first dating: Make gestures
of appreciation, compliment each other, contact each other through the
day, and show interest in each other.
Plan date nights. Schedule time together on the calendar just as you would any other important event in your life.
Respect one another. Say "thank you," and "I appreciate ...." It lets your partner know that he or she matters.
Relationship Problem: Struggles Over Home Chores
Most partners work outside the home and often at more than one job. So it's important to fairly divide the labor at home, says Dr issues, How to Use the Law of Attraction in Matters of the Heart.
Problem-solving strategies:
Be organized and clear about your respective jobs in the home,late,Bimbo Odukoya says. "Write all the jobs down and agree on who does what." Be fair: Make sure each partner's tasks are equitable so no resentment builds.
Be open to other solutions,If you both hate housework, maybe you can spring for a cleaning service. If one of you likes housework, the other partner can do the laundry and the yard. You can be creative and take preferences into account -- as long as it feels fair to both of you.
Relationship Problem: Not Making Your Relationship a Priority
If you want to keep your love life going, making your relationship a focal point should not end when you say "I do." Karen Sherman, author of Marriage Magic! Find It, Keep It, and Make It Last says, "Relationships lose their luster. So make yours a priority."
Problem-solving strategies:
Do the things you used to do when you were first dating: Make gestures of appreciation, compliment each other, contact each other through the day, and show interest in each other.
Plan date nights. Schedule time together on the calendar just as you would any other important event in your life.
Respect one another. Say "thank you," and "I appreciate ...." It lets your partner know that he or she matters.
Most partners work outside the home and often at more than one job. So it's important to fairly divide the labor at home, says Dr issues, How to Use the Law of Attraction in Matters of the Heart.
Problem-solving strategies:
Be organized and clear about your respective jobs in the home,late,Bimbo Odukoya says. "Write all the jobs down and agree on who does what." Be fair: Make sure each partner's tasks are equitable so no resentment builds.
Be open to other solutions,If you both hate housework, maybe you can spring for a cleaning service. If one of you likes housework, the other partner can do the laundry and the yard. You can be creative and take preferences into account -- as long as it feels fair to both of you.
Relationship Problem: Not Making Your Relationship a Priority
If you want to keep your love life going, making your relationship a focal point should not end when you say "I do." Karen Sherman, author of Marriage Magic! Find It, Keep It, and Make It Last says, "Relationships lose their luster. So make yours a priority."
Problem-solving strategies:
Do the things you used to do when you were first dating: Make gestures of appreciation, compliment each other, contact each other through the day, and show interest in each other.
Plan date nights. Schedule time together on the calendar just as you would any other important event in your life.
Respect one another. Say "thank you," and "I appreciate ...." It lets your partner know that he or she matters.
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